-----献给所有得到过所爱却又失去所爱的人，给从未得到所爱的人，给因为仍旧爱着，于是选择自欺欺人的人。这，是一面镜子，勇敢面对，勇敢放弃，勇敢重新开始。
当他不爱你的时候，无论过去他是否爱过后来却忘了，又或者是否是从未爱过。当你无法成为他心里的那个人的时候，他的心便不会记得你。虽然他知道你深爱他，但他宁可选择装作是不知道。
当他不爱你的时候，请不要在你不开心，或者是遇到麻烦而彷徨的时候去打搅他。他那儿绝对不是你此刻应该的去处。也许他会在接到你的电话的时候，淡淡地安慰你几句，却也仅此而已。也许你会再想要一点什么，于是说：“我们见面吧。”而他肯定心有烦躁了。当他不爱你的时候，你的爱，你的人，就会显得廉价许多。你占了下风，这是人的本性。他会说：“好，不过我现在有点事情。晚点的时候你再给我电话吧。或者我给你电话也可以。”而你这时千万不要当真，他只是找了个不是很高明的理由来搪塞你。请，不要真的去等，不要骗自己。
当他不爱你的时候，请不要与他讲你的琐事，也许此刻，你不过是希望让彼此更熟悉一些。只是，他却无暇更是没有兴趣去了解你，你的生活，你的过去，你的长处短处与他又何干？即使讲了。他也很快会忘记的，就如他忘记你的生日，你的地址，你的电话一样。没有爱，于是你注定挤不进他的生命。即使，你要的哪怕只是一个很小很小的角落。
当他不爱你的时候，请不要在他的面前流眼泪，不要在生病的时候告诉他。他无法给予你照顾和关心。至多是同情一下，而，请骄傲的你，不要放弃本来属于你的骄傲。虽然太多的人，在爱的面前丢失了太多。连站起来的勇气都没有。何来骄傲？只是，要记得，只有爱自己的人，才可以真正的去疼惜你。而不是，旁观的同情。怜悯。
当他不爱你的时候，你的爱便是他的负担。请不要去计算自己的付出，不要希望有什么回报。爱着不爱自己的人，本身便是没有回报的。不要计较对与错。这样会快乐些。要记住，你与他之间的爱，是单方面的，你用心，他无心。所以，也不要怪他。因为也许他也想做好一些。对你不要那样的冷漠。知识，爱一个人，对一个人好。本来就是一种本能。对不起，他没有这样的本能。
当他不爱你的时候，请不要失去自己的自信。因为爱一个人，并非他的优秀，而只是一种感觉。他让你有这样的感觉，于是你爱他。同样，他不爱你，也并非你不优秀。优秀，不是爱的理由。看看还有那么多爱自己的人，淡淡地微笑一下，也是异样甜美的。
当他不爱你的时候，也一定要祝福他。有了爱，便不该有恨。爱是美好的。恨却丑陋。何必让生命中最美好的东西化作丑恶呢？也不要觉得不公平。关于离去。他失去的是一个爱他的人，而你失去了一个不爱你的人，却得到了一个重新生活，重新去爱的机会。
请不要去想到“永远”。爱没有永远。你此刻深爱，却注定遥远的某一天也不再爱他。他只是比你早一步到达了这一天。当他不爱你的时候，请轻轻拥抱一下回忆里的温暖，轻柔地凝视凋谢的温柔。
当他不再爱你的时候，亲爱的，请你深深呼吸，一生的路上，铺满了爱的花蕾，总有那么一朵属于你，不是安慰你。而是，这是生生世世早已经注定的。相信我。
24 April 2007
Law of Attraction
The Law of Attraction is commonly associated with New Age and New Thought theories. It posits that one should never dwell on the negative, as the "metaphysical principle of life" is embodied in a "law of attraction": "you get what you think about; your thoughts determine your destiny." It is also said that emotions are the factor that increase or decrease the speed of attraction relative to how much you feel about the subject you are attempting to attract.
It's likely to have someone who is great at manifesting. There is always some person have everything, as if they were born under lucky star. Seemingly getting everything easily with little effort. Well, it maybe that they very well were born with the knowledge of manifesting already intact. Once we learn something in our past lives, it is not a lost, we can choose to bring those talents with us as we move into a new life experience.
Attracting abundance is a knowledge. It can't improve via practice or even surpass the talent expressed by another. Those people who are efficient in attracting have trained their minds to focus on their desires. They have learned it so well that they often times don't even realize how they do it. It is the same as a housemate of mine got the instinct to create abundance of wealth from sharemarket. Abundance comes to him naturally. He wouldn't blink an eye if someone suggested him don't deserve something, it isn't part of his reality.
Reality is created by noone other than ourself. We can attract money, relationships and career that we focus on. We have to state an affirmation, no affirmation is going to work if the thoughts or feelings are negating the positive. When we focus on "having less" then we create that experience for ourselves. Basically, just wanting something isn't going to bring that to us when we continue to obsess on the not having of that something. All we will experience is "not having" and will be ultimately blocking our true desires. It is better to focus on a particular object or senario on positive issue.
There is a trick to the Law of Attraction. This trick is not really as magocal as one might imagine. We are bombarded with repetitive negative phrases in our thinking such as "I just can't get ahead", "I couldn't dodge the bullet", "I won't be the winner", "I don't have enough", etc. Are you guilty of continuously repeating negatives either in thoughts or words? Is your negative mind set pretty much representative of your current life situation? If your answer is YES, then Congratulations! You are living proof that the law of attraction works.
Why do we focus on our illnesses, our low-paying jobs, and our less than fulfilling relationships? We do so out of habit. Breaking the "attracting negatives" habit, just like any other bad habit will take some effort on your part. Especially so, if you have been dwelling on the negatives for years. Your parents might have taught you this behavior by being the role model of "criticism" or "negative language." If this is so, then they are likely mirroring behavior they learned from their parents, and so on back through the generations. Isn't it time to break this negative cycle? It is time to break the cycle.
The Story behind...
In modern times, one of the earliest known formulations of the Law in the Western hemisphere is contained in the 1906 book Thought Vibration or the Law of Attraction in the Thought World by William Walker Atkinson, editor of New Thought magazine.
In March 2006 a film named The Secret reporting on the "Law of Attraction", gained much attention via internet video websites. The film was inspired by the producer's reading of the 1910 book The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles, which in its introduction refers to the origins of the theory of the Law of Attraction as follows: "This theory is of origin, and has been gradually winning its way into the thought of the western world for three hundred years. It is the foundation of all the Oriental philosophies, and those of Descartes, Spinoza, Leibnitz, Schopenhauer, Hegel and Emerson….."
It's likely to have someone who is great at manifesting. There is always some person have everything, as if they were born under lucky star. Seemingly getting everything easily with little effort. Well, it maybe that they very well were born with the knowledge of manifesting already intact. Once we learn something in our past lives, it is not a lost, we can choose to bring those talents with us as we move into a new life experience.
Attracting abundance is a knowledge. It can't improve via practice or even surpass the talent expressed by another. Those people who are efficient in attracting have trained their minds to focus on their desires. They have learned it so well that they often times don't even realize how they do it. It is the same as a housemate of mine got the instinct to create abundance of wealth from sharemarket. Abundance comes to him naturally. He wouldn't blink an eye if someone suggested him don't deserve something, it isn't part of his reality.
Reality is created by noone other than ourself. We can attract money, relationships and career that we focus on. We have to state an affirmation, no affirmation is going to work if the thoughts or feelings are negating the positive. When we focus on "having less" then we create that experience for ourselves. Basically, just wanting something isn't going to bring that to us when we continue to obsess on the not having of that something. All we will experience is "not having" and will be ultimately blocking our true desires. It is better to focus on a particular object or senario on positive issue.
There is a trick to the Law of Attraction. This trick is not really as magocal as one might imagine. We are bombarded with repetitive negative phrases in our thinking such as "I just can't get ahead", "I couldn't dodge the bullet", "I won't be the winner", "I don't have enough", etc. Are you guilty of continuously repeating negatives either in thoughts or words? Is your negative mind set pretty much representative of your current life situation? If your answer is YES, then Congratulations! You are living proof that the law of attraction works.
Why do we focus on our illnesses, our low-paying jobs, and our less than fulfilling relationships? We do so out of habit. Breaking the "attracting negatives" habit, just like any other bad habit will take some effort on your part. Especially so, if you have been dwelling on the negatives for years. Your parents might have taught you this behavior by being the role model of "criticism" or "negative language." If this is so, then they are likely mirroring behavior they learned from their parents, and so on back through the generations. Isn't it time to break this negative cycle? It is time to break the cycle.
The Story behind...
In modern times, one of the earliest known formulations of the Law in the Western hemisphere is contained in the 1906 book Thought Vibration or the Law of Attraction in the Thought World by William Walker Atkinson, editor of New Thought magazine.
In March 2006 a film named The Secret reporting on the "Law of Attraction", gained much attention via internet video websites. The film was inspired by the producer's reading of the 1910 book The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles, which in its introduction refers to the origins of the theory of the Law of Attraction as follows: "This theory is of origin, and has been gradually winning its way into the thought of the western world for three hundred years. It is the foundation of all the Oriental philosophies, and those of Descartes, Spinoza, Leibnitz, Schopenhauer, Hegel and Emerson….."
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